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The one where we talk Surviving + Thriving when things don’t go as planned

Season: 2

Episode: 5

A native to the Triangle, Julie, and her team have created the first Divorce Team for Real Estate. Trained in divorce and negotiations they are helping those who are divorced move into their next home. She shares her story with the Girls Who Do Stuff.

Episode type: full

Hosts:Jenny Midgley and Sarah Madras

Contains Explicit Content: yes

Full Show Notes

There are so many moving parts to divorce and real estate is often pushed to the side. This is where Julie and her team can help.

We talk about what happens during the divorce process with real estate. In North Carolina, it takes one to buy and two to sell. So both people have to be in agreement to sell the home. This can be challenging if the divorce is not amicable.

Julie also got her life coach certification and mindfulness certification to better help her clients who are in a difficult headspace due to a divorce.

“When you’re in that headspace, you can’t really think forward.” – Julie

Divorce is a trauma, even if you are choosing it.

Julie tried nesting with her divorce. In her opinion, it was the worst way to live in the world. There is a lot of passive-aggressive roommate-type behavior and you need to maintain three households.

A client of Julie’s had a one-night stand during a 25-year marriage and she was awarded no alimony. Nothing. He was the primary breadwinner and she stayed at home with the kids. We talk about cases that represent antiquated divorce law in North Carolina.

Julie shares tips for those going through a divorce when it comes to the financial decisions around real estate and shares from her personal story of divorce and what she learned on her journey.

You can contact Julie at (919) 412-0185 or her website at redivorcespecialists.com